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Friday, May 27, 2011

Flowers and funerals...

Things are blooming over here...
Growing up in this house we didn't have as many flower beds...
{I do remember having to weed the few we had
and I'm sure I complained the whole time}
But, maybe it was when my sister and I left to start our own families
that mom decided she needed a project
 grass became mulch
and 
a few plants became many.
 And as a result,
last week I cut bunches of these
and this week, 
bunches of these

I wish you could see how HUGE some of these peony blooms are

they don't have much of a scent
but I do enjoy seeing them scattered all over the house.
"God loved the flowers and invented soil.  Man loved the flowers and invented vases." 
Jacques Deval

It appears as though next week these will be gracing the house...
"I'd rather have roses on my table
 than diamonds on my neck."  
Emma Goldman

They're really beautiful..and I can take no credit whatsoever for them.
I often say that all the good stuff you see around here was inherited.
{Thanks, mom!}

It strikes me how like our own lives these flowers are.
Beautiful
and
Fragile
and 
short-lived
Even the most prolific gardener cannot create a crop that holds life and blooms on forever.
Though they are appreciated and enjoyed,
all blooms fade and die eventually.

On Wednesday I attended my FOURTH funeral in the last four months.
Two of them in one week.
All four were great women of faith who left quite a legacy for their families and friends.
I've had enough death for the year.
I'd like it very much if I didn't attend another funeral ever..
or at least for a long time.

 But, there is something about sitting at a funeral that makes you put life into perspective.
It is so short, so unexpected.
And we waste so much time thinking that this is all there is.
But what if it's not...
what if we labor hard
and stress out much
what if we spend our life seeking the next
treasure 
or 
pleasure
and, in an instant we are suddenly gone
and all that we poured our energy into
stays behind.
What then?

What if the world expends energy on trying to disprove the existence of 
God
and 
Heaven
and succeeds in taking all mention of them out of our lives...
and it is wrong - all of it just a trick to get our minds off of what is True.
What then?

Will we regret the things we gave our 
time
attention
money
worship
praise
hearts
and wish we had listened to the Voice of Truth instead?

 Sadly, it'll be too late to change our minds
we will have already chosen our path.

I've already made my choice
and I'm quite confident it is the Right One.
But so many around me have not...
and how I live my life from birth to death may affect the way they see the Right One.

The end comes for all of us
sometimes we have the blessing of planning it all out
and sometimes we don't.
But, the one thing we all have in common
is that it WILL come.

So how will we spend our days of waiting?
What will we do with our remaining time?


Thursday, May 27, 2010

Dear Wisteria....

I will miss you...

You've grown so strong and healthy over the years.  Your blooms have brought beauty in the spring, and your branches have provided privacy all summer long.  I will miss sitting underneath you each morning as I read.  You are one of the many things I will miss about this house that has become our home....
You are sometimes hard to keep up with..you grow so quickly and grab hold of anything that sits nearby.  But you've lived a good life with us...

It's hard to believe you started out as small as this. 
And even harder to believe you will be dug up and discarded when your new owners arrive!  I will miss you when I drive by, straining my neck to see how the old homestead is surviving our absense.  Apparently you cause allergies, but don't take offense...you've done your job well for us.
We will miss you...

"Everybody needs beauty as well as bread, places to play in and pray in,
where nature may heal and give strength to body and soul."
~John Muir
In your stead we will inherit one of these...
she is also beauty and grows abundantly...
and one of these...
a bit overgrown from neglect, but still beauty awaiting an appreciative glance. 
I guess it's a little case of give and take...
And in the end, it's all good...
all of it.

"Good heavens, of what uncostly material is our earthly happiness composed... if we only knew it. What incomes have we not had from a flower, and how unfailing are the dividends of the seasons."
~James Russell Lowell
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